Sitting around the dining table, I asked the Leflers to describe their family to me. Virginia, the mother of two sons and grandmother of four girls, a former resident of rural Texas and Nebraska who uprooted herself and moved to Chicago long ago, let out a sigh.
"We're renegades," she said.
Nick, one of the boys and the father of five-month-old twins, did not see it that way.
"We are, uh, boring," he said.
I saw Virginia's assessment, but not Nick's. During the course of our morning photo shoot, various family members got concrete dust on themselves while posing in a nearby construction zone, climbed trees in neighbors' yards and got into a leaf-hurling fight in a stormwater-retention ditch (which was dry, thankfully).
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When the family storytelling starts to center around the tales of the patriarch, Jim goes to his drum set.
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Nick and Christine
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Jeremy and Mwende...
with Samara, feeling camera-shy, ducking behind her mom, and Aiden capturing more leaves for her bouquet.
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Lefler vs. Lefler.
This went on for quite a while, and appeared to center on Nick and Jeremy settling some unresolved childhood disputes.
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Meanwhile, Aiden decided the best way to get more leaves was to follow Aunt Christine and Uncle Nick.
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Grandpa just wanted some time with his littlest girls...
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...and his main girl.
Trespassing and leaf-hurling aside, they think they have done a good job so far.
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The results of that job agree.